Surfing a Tide of Weirdness

Surfing a Tide of Weirdness

on Nov 03 2026

“The big tension is between convenience and individuality, and we are giving up so much of our individuality and our privacy for convenience. That’s something that we have to opt into. I don’t know that there’s anything wrong with having a bit of both, but I do think that perhaps if you’re extreme one way or the other, you’re really missing out on a great deal.”

– Debbie Milman, host of the podcast ‘Design Matters, on the ‘Ezra Klien Show’ podcast, October 2026

Most of us could make the same observations about the various motorcycle sub-cultures surrounding us. How the various ADV bikes and riders look about the same, how the touring bikes and riders look the same, all the Harley bikes and riders look about the same, etc. This link The age of average — Alex Murrell takes you to a short and very interesting essay which extends this idea -- the utility-value of ‘sameness’ -- to every area of technology all over the world surrounding us. Its concluding paragraph is the weakest part of this essay. Based on the content of the essay, and also my general life experience, my takeaway is simple, but missing from the essay…

There are only two factors which cause ’The Age of Average’ (A lousy title which is the point):

1.) As the essay’s author notes, we humans are all a lot more alike than different, and this is true for all individual species of life. Beneath all the micro-variations and micro-variables is, at an emotional and psychological level, that every human wants to experience ‘belonging’ which is a super-powerful pull toward uniformity. We all seek to be different in nuance, while remaining strongly bonded to everyone else. We need that constant affirmation to be secure in our lifestyle choices.

My favorite quote about all this comes from a successful but not super well-known actor who said: “To discover what normal means, you have to surf a tide of weirdness.” – Charlotte Rampling, in an interview in The New Yorker magazine, 16 May 2021.

Being a little ‘weird’ as a transportation motorcycle rider, and as maker of unusual, armored textile ‘coveralls’, has most likely been partly a result of childhood emotional and developmental experiences which combined with what these days has become known as mild autism. Being this way has been a life-long constant which only more recently became more noticeable after I started riding for daily transportation during the winter months here in Minnesota.

Riding itself can be ostracizing, and riding wearing an Aerostich one-piece suit takes this weirdness one level higher because it isn’t normal motorcycle gear (a jacket and jeans). Then, riding on snowy and icy streets on a cold day blows the weirdness level out of the water. People occasionally take photos of me doing it and post them on social media. Seriously.

For a bunch of good, logical reasons I’ve always hoped the simple weirdness of riding for daily utility transportation would somehow catch on and become more normal in American culture, but it probably won’t. At least not anytime soon. Lots of reasons. Thus, I ride-forth a certifiable weirdo, surrounded by endless numbers of people, including many very committed motorcycle riders, all happily and uniformly enclosed within their comfortable, safe and well-sealed cars and trucks.

2.) The engineering and financial ‘logic’ of uniformity and belonging. These considerations apply a tremendous pressure for most serially produced human-made artifacts and systems to be both average and uniform. Technology advances accretionarily (a made-up word meaning ‘by accretion’). Airplanes and SUV autos both continue improving: A) functionally, B) economically and C) aerodynamically, incrementally converging on optimal solutions based on the knowledge accumulated through prior experiences. And except for the aerodynamic element, so does everything else we build, from riding suits to office buildings and houses.

Lately I’ve been thinking about the impact of A.I. on this phenomenon. It clearly has a kind of aggregated logic and knowledge beyond human capacity in most (all?) areas, but is it taking all of us toward an even more uniform ‘Age of Average’ in the future, or away from that? I’m not sure anyone directly involved is able to answer this question with any degree of certainty. I know I’m sure not. The only thing that I think is becoming more obvious recently is the money going into A.I. is looking more like an investment bubble. Here’s a short Facebook ‘reel’ that is persuasive on this: https://www.facebook.com/reel/2543344679442452 I think I should go for a ride today, and surf my own little ‘tide of weirdness’ for a while and not worry about stuff like this, at least for a little while. Riding motorcycles is wonderful. And good for us.

Weirdness can be both vexing and wonderful, if you are open to it.

-- Mr. Subjective, Nov 2026

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